Thanks MH and NQ You're right MH, he is being manipulative and stubborn. Talking of horoscopes, H is a Taurus and they are supposed to be stubborn. I think I'd go with NQ's response, but for the moment I've decided to ignore him. I'll wait to hear from him again and then I'll say - "I have made an appt for this week to discuss my options and I won't be speaking to you or my mum until I've been." I know he brought it on himself, but I still don't like to think of my H hard up and desperate. I was thinking when I get my benefits on Tuesday that I'll pop a bit of money into the joint account for him. Not much though as I've not got a lot, but my mum is sending me a cheque this week to cover my Christmas shopping
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
You're right MH, he is being manipulative and stubborn. Talking of horoscopes, H is a Taurus and they are supposed to be stubborn.