Originally Posted By: Not Quitting
Hi cp

We all have rough days. You'll be fine and you'll survive - you've come a long way already. And you're not alone in feeling resentment at being burdened with keeping the family going while your H is off doing whatever he wants to with no responsibilities.

Stay strong and keep up the good work you've been doing.

Thanks NQ smile

He is helping more now with the kids, but you are right, I feel like I carry a heavy burden because, since the kids are with me, I am responsible for making the household run smoothly and it is a lot to take on. Keeping track of the kids schoolwork and activities is a full time job! It sounds like you are quite busy as well. There's always so much going on.


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.