Thanks fly, I'm tying to think things through instead of being so impulsive, your right about the door locks, I think I was looking for a response if I did it, again I'm trying to control the sitch.
As far as the door locks go, I would say don't change them. At this point, you want to make sure that your W has a nicely paved road home. Being locked out of the house is pretty much the opposite. Also, it looks like you are being vindictive and childish - not traits she wants to come home to!
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14