my questions as well. We hardly speak from weekend to weekend and so it is hard to show the 180 I am making .. and believe me in my head they are working fine but no one to see.. being more positive, not finding fault, not organising or managing and his language of love is Acts of Service.. he really likes when things are done for him.. but he is 4 hours away though i did manage to clean off a stain on his favouirte sweat shirt this afternoon and he was happy to hear it I think