I'm a 28m and have been married to my 27w for 3 years. we have a 3 year old daughter.
She recently dropped the bomb on me that she is not happy, and is ready to leave. I had no idea that she was this unhappy with our life.
I used to play video games a lot and she said that i was neglectful and that she would cry herself to sleep when i wouldn't come to bed.
It's been a long month. At first I was needy and told her how much i loved her and needed her. How much our family needed to stay together for our daughter. But i have recently come to these forums and have been reading a lot of great information. I have been trying to take care of me.
She has really been neglecting anything to do with home. She tends to go out on weekends with "friends" and usually doesn't come home until mid-day the next day. I think this is the hardest part. This is totally new behavior for her.