I'd like to remind posters that the talk that TV has w/her h came a good place in the crisis. If you attempt to have this type of talk w/your MLCer before they are partly baked, it will go in one ear and out the other. It is best to wait and observe and you will know when the time is right to open that door and step inside to have that chat.
Very true, that.
But this:
Originally Posted By: TVS
H said that he wished I had spoken to him sooner, that we need to get better at communication, that we shouldn't go so long without talking.
Is proof to me that we don't have to STFU forever, and wait, wait, wait for them to initiate some kind of reality talks. Of course timing is everything.
TVS, would you say you issued any "truth darts" prior to your nuke session with H? Oh was it more like you weren't saying anything about the R and held it all in until you finally couldn't take it anymore? You've not posted for a while prior to this so I'm not sure. Thanks!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
