Hey Ang, it seems like you must be doing well, otherwise H wouldn't be being all nicey-nicey at times. There is still much hurt so you are going to react for a bit, but don't beat yourself up over those times. It's so difficult to let go of the hurt.
He doesn't understand why you are behaving so differently, so he does the poor me thing to see if you are still there. Just say I'm sorry you feel that way and STFU<--my new motto.
So I think you must be doing something right! I'm proud of you.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
