You did really well to hold it together in front of your H. It does get easier to interact, although there will still be times when it's hard to not show how upset you are about the sitch. My H moved out in June and there are times when he comes over to see our son that I can't wait for him to leave and others when I don't want him to go because everything just feels normal again.

Use the time on your own to work on your PMA and on yourself. The times he has the kids is the ideal time for you to GAL.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks