DARK - how do you do it right? I need help BADLY

[DTM]

Financially I would be responsible for close to $50k payback if I break contract. My W says she would like to move back to NC (not even back to the town we left, but to the coast) but as they say - believe nothing of what they say...who knows. Either way, if she files for D the state isn't going to let her just pick up and move away than 50 miles.Taking care of my family and espcially my kids is of course my priority, although my priority is NOT moving back to NC so my W can be with her girlfriend, that is just plain silly. My children are just fantastic where they are, proper father and all. Although I can appreciate your point of view, it's simply not the case. A huge 180 for me would be not providing for my family. With my new job I finally have the time to focus quality time on them and it's quite evident; my children notice because they routinely mention to me how nice it is to have me home and I am engaged in their numerous activities...much improved over the last few years.