So he is here, is distant but friendly enough and not one word about the relationship. I am finding it so stressful, waiting for a bomb to explode again. I am following the 37 steps and my coaches advice so am not initiating any relationship talk or talk about the marriage or future and neither is he...ahh he will leave in afew hours..no idea when he is back I suspect not next weekend.. we have exchanged emails about his issue and he was going to talk more.but nothing yet. I have no idea where we are.. he still is not affectionate at all so I assume he isthinking we are separated but he slept in our bed so.... I have no clue.. He is also distant with our pup but that looks like it takes an effort and he would like to interact more but hasn't and doesn't. I am giving him space, not managing or organising and letting him set the pace..but it is very uncomfortable. just needed to vent a bit
I was thinking about me visiting him some weekends so he doesn't have to do all the travelling but that will only be if he is making a plan for regular trips down here...I think. he has left most of his clothes and just has a few things so he has not movedout the next move is up to him
