I don't know what the h$ll is going on now. W hasn't spoken to me basically for 3 days. I guess since I asked her not to text/message in bed at night.
Today, I took S12 to a college football game, then to buy shoes for basketball season. W acted pissed that I was taking him. Said something about taking him herself to get shoes. I told her I would call/text when we were leaving and we could meet her and S10 to do that.
We left the game early because it was a blowout. I tried to call and text W with no response. Finally, got S12 to try and after 3 tries, she finally answered him. She was no longer interested in meeting us and said to get whatever he wanted. I sent her a pic if one pair of shoes he was looking at because they were the same ones I know she had already purchased him for Christmas. No response. During the whole shopping trip, she is texting S12 on and off.
Finally agree to meet W and S10 for supper when we get back to hometown. Throughout the meal, she is cold and distant with me. Every bit of eye contact has an edge to it. Zero interaction with me. Funny thing is, S12's attitude changed completely in her presence. He became a silly attention grabber. He had been a very upbeat, polite kid all day with me and others.
Fast forward to home. Straight back to her room while I watch TV in living room with S12. I fall asleep on the couch and come up to bed around 1am. W is still up, phone in hand. She asks if I'm going to bed and gets up to oh downstairs. *Respecting the boundary. * I get up to go downstairs to get a glass of water and she is sitting oddly next to the table where I keep my phone at night. W immediately says "I'm not looking at your phone." A lie. I get my water and proceed upstairs.
Mistake: I couldn't help myself. I asked if she was OK and if something had happened the last 3 days. I get "I'm done". I ask what that means and why the sudden change to zero communication and I get "I don't want to talk to you. I have nothing to say to you. This isn't about the last 3 days, it's the last 10 years." WTF? I calmly stated that I understood and that she had expressed that already. I assured her that I was trying to clear up why there was zero communication over the last few days. I get "I don't want to fight. I've got nothing to say. I will talk to you tomorrow if you want me to." I left her down there and came to bed.
It's hard to detach from the BS when they are in your face stomping you all the time. Not sure what's going on, but I had a great day with my son. I'll get up in the morning and walk to church with S10 and gave a great day with him. Frustrating. Not sure how to proceed with the financial discussion at this juncture without creating more venom. I'm assuming I'm getting this crap because I went out of my way to do something cool with S12 that didn't involve her and he was really excited about it. Best I can figure. Oh well. More MLC BS. Sad.
One more thought. One if my good friends lost his father last night. W did bring that up to me as we were going into eat tonight. He lives 2 states away and we both saw it on FB this morning. I said I had seen it and that was end of conversation. Maybe that has triggered something in her today. IDK. I just know the last 3 days have been real different. I haven't gotten this type of spew in a while.
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Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13
