I've been reading your past two threads...and the other day, wanted to post but just didn't know what to say. I am so sorry for all the hurt you've been going through.
Your hurt and heartache are so obvious...and I definitely understand your pain so much.
I will say this, though, at least for me....when I finally found out the truth about my H's year long affair...when I could finally confront him about it....it really filled me with relief.
I had my suspicions and concerns and worries and "what ifs"...and having them all out in the open and having H KNOW that I knew...that was very freeing.
You are SO much stronger than you think you are. When the time comes, do NOT be afraid to confront your H or to let him know what you know. I promise that the anticipation (and the imagining) is so much worse than the actual knowing.
***And, I LOVE that movie Under the Tuscan Sun....wish I could run away to Italy right now!!!***
