Update: I've had a couple of those "weird" days...but what's normal when your H is having a MLC??? Lol!
Thursday evening: Two older sons had football about an hour away. H and I drove separately so he could go straight to work after. He got to games first, and paid my way into the gate. He called to let me know he did this and told me where he was sitting, etc.
Seemed to really reach out. He also called me a couple of times, on the road, to see where I was, etc. and to check on me.
We had light, friendly convo the whole game. We sat with friends of ours (who do know all the crap we're going through) and it was just fun, joking around and watching our kids play. He didn't hug me goodbye, but, otherwise, a pretty good evening.
Friday: I went to watch my sons' march in the band and watch our local football game. H invited himself along...just pretty much acted like it was expected that he was going with me (we've don't ever go to these games so it was "different" that he invited himself to come with me). He kept commenting, though, that I was really quiet and acting strange.
Mostly, I was "in a funky mood" and trying to STFU....to be honest!!! I knew I was in a bad mood...and feeling hormonal so I tried not to talk too much. Lol. I did make a few catty remarks that I felt bad about later.
He made a few remark about needing a blanket because his friend doesn't have one for him to use on the couch. H left at halftime for work....still didn't hug goodbye but was friendly.
I avoided texting him the rest of the night, but he did text to ask the final score, etc. I kept it short and friendly.
Saturday: H didn't how up until 2PM (gets off at 7:30 AM) but says he was hanging with the guys..and watched a game at 11 AM. Who knows? We ended up getting into an angry, ugly argument by text...but I have to say, it was my fault this time. I was still moody and kinda wondering where he was all morning so when he finally texted, I was a B.
He did buy me a coffee pot (I LOVE coffee and I mentioned yesterday that ours broke...so that was sweet of him.)
He got home to get ready for our kid's band concert, and he started joking around with me. The mood lightened a lot and we enjoyed the concert together with all six of us.
When he left for work today, he did hug me goodbye. ______________________________________________________________ So, here's some of the "weird" stuff that freaks me out or make me anxious or makes me wonder:
Today, he said that "it's a milestone...we only have 4 weeks left" referring to our agreement to wait 8 weeks to file for a divorce. It really hurt me because we've been doing okay and it seems NOW like he's just being nice until the time is up and then, he'll be gone. WTH? Ugh.
He brought up the "made up affair" from earlier this week...and said that it really "hurt" his feelings that I would believe that he would actually sleep with another woman. Huh?????? He said, "it's like you don't even know me..."
Well, duh...I FEEL like I don't know him right now.
Then, he kept talking about "Judy"...when the name he gave me was "Jody"...and in typical MLC fashion, he couldn't remember half of what he told me Monday about his so-called "fake" affair.
Some of the time, it seems that he is leaning toward me...and starting to get closer....and then, he brings up our timeline for him leaving and brings up moving his stuff out, etc.
He was talking about needing to find a place to do his laundry, etc. I hate this "him living here, but not living here" thing he's doing.
He also cuddled with me for a little bit before he went to work tonight...he played with my hair, rubbed my back, etc. He was just acting differently than he has in awhile...and frankly, it is freaking me out a little. Lol.
I feel like he's just being nice so he can let me down easy or something.
