planet, thank you for your feedback. What do I want?
I don't want or need my W to reply to the letter.
I do want the next level of closure. Not complete closure where I don't want the W anymore.
I want her to hear why I haven't contacted her for the last 6 months, rather than her possibly thinking that I am/have/want to avoid her (mindreading, yes).
I want her to know, I am going to continue to listen to her last want: to find happiness and peace. And in my way, that means no contact initiated by me.
I want her to know I still care/love her, but it is an open bird cage, she needs to be the one to fly back.
I simply want her to know something, because we haven't spoken or anything for nearly 6 months, by that time the letter comes around.
I want her to know, at the time of leaving this town, she is still on my mind.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.