That is what I am trying to do. If it takes a couple of skanky OW bandaids for my H to be able to come out of this tunnel, I think I can bear it. I can be that stanchion Cadet talks about. I can see how strong you are becoming Heather, that you are really thinking and growing. I LOVE your to-do list, especially changing the way you look at yourself from artsy fartsy flake to artistic savvy woman. And detaching. That is a big one for me too. You have inspired me to write a list of my own! Thanks!
Thank you Linda for your kind words.
I appreciate you understanding that I didn't mean to sound judging. I'm trying so hard to understand. It does feel so counterintuitive at times. That's an understatement.
I'm overwhelmed by how you can behave with such dignity and grace with your H in the house. There's a reason why God put my H so far away. I simply don't have the patience and impulse control that you do.
Much Love to you. You're one awesome lady!
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson