You will come to a point were you will get over the "feelings". IMO, you are still hanging on to the "it's all about me" stuff. Personally, I don't care how you "feel". Yeah, sounds a little harsh. That's just my opinion.
I moved because my W wanted to move back to her home state. I gave up a business I had built up over 22 years as a sole proprietor (7 years) and with a partner (15 years). I sold my house. I sold my half of my business.
In the end, I got over it. Why? Because it didn't matter. My M is what mattered. It was my trying to control everything and trying to influence the outcome of everything that was making it all worse.
I had to start making changes for me. I had to make life changes for me. By "for me", I am referring to making myself into a better man and person and not on a selfish level.
It took some time for it to sink in for me. A couple of people here gave me some solid kicks to the groins and some well placed slaps to the head but I finally got it.
You will get there, too.
So, tell us what you are doing. Like I said, I don't care how you feel. Feelings are over-rated. I don't care what you read. I want to know what changes you made. What course of action are you taking?
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter
