Hey, Mish, your recent posts reminded me for some reason about a book I ran across around my divorce and thought "hey wish I'd seen that a couple years ago" but Michelle Weiner-Davis gave it a great review on Amazon, and it looks like it might be good, so maybe you could inter-library loan it or something but it's called: How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It by Patricia Love and Stosny. Anyway....just a thought...
