My two cents here. As far as the credit cards get the .com and sign up for online billing and statements only to your email. Pay the existing balance.
If you don't want her to use them call the credit card company and ask for a warning call when a new purchase over a certain amount is made. SOme let you sign up for that right on line. You get a call or text when the limit is reached.
As far as the house and insurance...you may have to just come out with it to her, this is too important. Most mortgages have the same online sign up to keep up with everything and make payments as well.
I opened a second account only in my name, same bank and allocate $$$ after direct deposits have been made each week. This is extreme, and I was surprised H went for it, but I think he knows deep down I am right. He does at least still trust that in me.
If you have debit cards, turn off overdraft protection so fees don't get accumulated there as well, the bank just won't let the purchase thru.
Good luck! Hope something works.
Dawn
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
