What are you doing to be sure you won't cheat in the future? It is easier to say you've woken up and to think you're different, but in my experience it takes a lot of practice to solidify learning and make it a part of who I am now. I'm often finding myself slipping into ways I was pretty sure I had changed.

So what are your concrete actions? Have you explored what about you caused you to stray? Have you worked to change your thought patterns in relationships with women?


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.