Also, I have done a 180 in regards to my own person when it pertains to R. So if with her, she will get a better H, but is this is over, whoever I finally find will be with a much better man.
I have always been a good father and she knows. I'm just concentrating on my DD. Going out with her on the weekends and enjoying life with my little one. I know she notices. She has been insisting I drop her off on Sundays and I prefer to drop her off in school Monday because I don't want to see my W. NC is for me a time to heal and let my W go. She made a decision of the OM over me. Whether the right choice or not it is her decision and I have to respect it. I have no say in her decision.
Of course the man is a cheater and abused his ex, but that is not my concerns as long as it does not start being a problem that will affect out DD4. At least for now she is not bringing the man to our DD
