I learned, that I'm not the victim here. I learned that there is not excuse for me ever cheating on her. I'm not justifying her actions either. She shouldn't have had a revenge A, but she will have to deal with her own demons and mistakes. I will deal with mine.
I learned that although she was not fulfilling my needs I wasn't fulfilling her either. The basic affection need of a woman must be met and I failed to fulfill that. How then could I expect her to do the things I want. I was selfish.
