Hi - just visiting, always enjoy reading your threads. I was going to vote the same. However, there's something off about your being nice when it might send someone running. Nice is considering what is appropriate and what another person might welcome. Pushing something that you like onto someone where it isn't appropriate isn't actually nice.

Even though I think you are nice, I don't think that idea REALLY was. Save the flowers and nostalgia for a romantic relationship where it would be welcomed and anticipated...and reciprocated.

Maybe something to think about is how to develop a filtering system so that "nice" isn't something that comes one-sided out of you but is instead reflective of your understanding of the recipient.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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