While writing honestly, good bad or indifferent, is really important, it also gives a window into your thoughts. And you must discipline your thoughts, over time. To change your feelings you first change what you think about the thing triggering your feelings. So using this place to enjoy (smiley) your secret hidden thoughts of vindictiveness and bitterness is in the long run going to hurt your progress. Be honest but then be willing to look at and adjust for your own personal growth. MrC was trying to HELP you.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
