uRw, do you remember telling me once to "Use tact, not anger. Tact was described to me as telling someone to go to hell, and they look forward to the trip."

Well that is you my friend. You tell us the truth, tell it like it truly is, but apply what would be a painful 2x4 in someone else's hand with gentleness, grace, love and tact.

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17