I am not pretending to speak for adinva, but my own thought is that if you both already agreed that it's fine for your children to miss a day of school for this event, then that wouldn't change because the status of your attendance changes.
-PM
As I said before, I don't have kids yet, so feel free to ignore me on this, but I think PM has the right idea here as far as DBing is concerned. Unless there's concern for the kids' safety, it's probably okay to just let this one go.
M: 26 H: 30 no kids M: 4 T: 6
BD / I moved out of in-laws: 10/9/13 Changes mind from divorce to MC (never went): 10/15 Conflicted/ambivalent but more positive: 10/26 Doesn't know what he wants: 11/7
