Sorry to say!: IMHO: It sounds controlling, a bit manipulative and like something they teach you on the first day at a sales course.

Why not: “W, we need to do something about our housing soon. What is your opinion about this?”

Me:44 W:43
D7, D5 (S11 from other R)

T: 8y - not M
ILYB: 8. Mar 2013
W moved: 1. Aug 2013
LRT: 20. Aug 2013
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