come on legs keep moving and dont lose no ground..

[Takevowsserious]

Hello my friend

Now you know, I remember B lady too - we've had quite a few discussions about her. She was one of the first people to post to me in my now disappeared first thread

It was her gentleness and kindness that really helped me when I first came here. Yes, sometimes we all need a nudge or a push to get us unstuck, get us moving forward. That includes me.

But I have to tell you that when I first came here with my heart in shreds and my world turned upside down, I didn't need a push or a 2x4 - I needed someone to understand me and help me.

And that is exactly what I got. I consider myself very lucky.

I would just like to say for the record that Ms. Worthy is pretty much a bad a$$ - trust me on that one! Lol!

Love you girl

[uRworthy]

Thank you, my friend. You words mean so much. Love you, too.

[RosaLinda]

uRw, do you remember telling me once to "Use tact, not anger. Tact was described to me as telling someone to go to hell, and they look forward to the trip."

Well that is you my friend. You tell us the truth, tell it like it truly is, but apply what would be a painful 2x4 in someone else's hand with gentleness, grace, love and tact.

[uRworthy]

Hey Rosa, thank you. Those words are actually not mine, they are Mach's. They are part of a post from him regarding how to set boundaries.

But I appreciate your words.

I dont want anyone here to misunderstand what I am saying. I am not at all going to change who I am. I like me.

As I wrote, I had been feeling as if I wasnt helping lately. Someone I respect a great deal pointed out some things that I
took a look at.

And because I care so much about all of you, I wanted to be sure that I was doing my very best and being true to me.

All part of my journey.

[beatrice]

Thanks for the post on my thread, and back at you!

I like both faces of URworthy - feisty and gentle. You have a base clef and a treble clef, a harmony and a melody - together they make the whole. You don't always have to use them equally! And sometimes gentle is just as effective.

[RosaLinda]

we all like you too

[Feenix]

Because the truth in all this is that this $hit is hard. And looking inside and doing the work is hard. And sometimes you just have to suck it up. Sometimes you have to say f it.

I need this printed out and stuck where I can see it everyday.

Before, I was never been a big fan of the "F" word...but I tell ya what...here lately, that is the ONLY word that works for me sometimes. "F this...F that....F him...F everything...F it...STFU!"

Love ya, uR...I always appreciate your honesty.

[Mach1]

Mach, on the other hand - you are such a boy. Sigh.....

You would probably call an Alligator a Lizard too...???

[uRworthy]

LOL! Meant that you are male. My bad. You are certainly not a boy. Well, except that you like trucks and shiny tools and stuff.