I think we all become bi polar during our sitches. Like planet said, she is done, she will be the only one you can change that to maybe I am done, to I am not done. We cannot. But we can help her change, by being a better person, an improved person.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.