Oh, and p.s. I took a look at W cell phone bill; some part of me wondered if OM would try to text or call her. I saw a number where she texted a bunch back and forth. I asked her about it, and found out it was a mom for a friend of D10's, and W was coordinating a sleepover. I told W that unexplained numbers might make me uncomfortable for awhile, and if she would just be honest with me, I'd let it go. She handed me her phone, and said, "You can look at anything you want, I'm not deleting anything."
Also, today W texted me "Sent you a friend request".
She re-enabled her Facebook, blocked OM, changed her maiden name back to married name, sent me a friend request, and listed herself as married to me. This means all mutual friends to OM are now seeing it, so although FB in itself is pretty goofy, it's a pretty big "public outing".
Of course, upon looking at a picture of her from about 3 months ago, I saw where OM had "liked" it. This was before they had even met in person, but still... Just another step, I guess, and another crumb of the past to deal with.
