Seperation VS Divorce

[peaceSJ]

Hi Melissa, Thank you for stopping by my thread and your encouraging words.
Yes, H will move out next weekend. He brought it up in September but found an apartment in Nov. But he still wants to come back home and spend some time with the kids every day. I don't think his plan will let him feel the consequences of his moving out, and not give me privacy and space either. I told him I don't agree with his plan, but he insisted on it. So I don't know how the things will turn out after he moves out.

I have two kids (5 & 7 yrs old) too. Do you mind sharing your experience about how to deal with the kids? How you and you H timeshare taking care of you kids? How did you explain to them about the crrent situation? I really don't want to hurt my kids. They didn't know anything yet.

Thank you!