I slipped up at let her know I felt a little bad about leaving. She asked why and I was honest. Told her I feel we have been making positive progress and seems like a bad time to leave.
So you'll make up for it later when she texts to see how you're doing and you reply that you're having a great time. Don't say anything about the relationship right now. You're enjoying your life and time on your own, remember?
She still wants a relationship with you, it seems to me. Be happy and don't muff it up by pushing her too fast! She's got to come to you, and that'll take time. Relax and enjoy the ride. Like one of my good friends likes to say, You got this!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
Haha thanks FY. I will enjoy my time, besides freezing my butt off in the morning. Going from waking up to 70 degrees this morning to outside in 28 degrees tomorrow.
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M
Well no luck today, did almost freeze to death though. Not much going on as far as the W. We texted a little bit and that was it. She sent me 3 pics of herself at different times throughout the day. I guess she is just hang out at one of her girlfriends house tonight. Did not ask her, she offered. That 4:45 wake up call this morning has me tired already. I'll be hitting the bed early tonight, same wake up time tomorrow. I hope everyone is doing ok.
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M
The hunting stinks, but W seems to be warming up a little more. She has been texting me a lot mostly just small talk, but she does bring up future stuff involving us at times. Yesturday morning she asks me to call her when I get out of the woods. This was a little strange as we had been texting. I figured it was something bad if she would not text it to me. I was right and wrong. First W promises me not to get mad because she is gonna be honest with me about something, I agree . She said OM asked if he could come over and she said ok. This was yesturday morning when he did. W said it was the first time she had seen him since the night she messed her face up two weeks ago. She said it was really awkward and they dident even really talk he was there for just 20 minutes. W admitted that her feelings for me are really starting to grow and she does not need that emotional connection anymore. I told her that I appreciate her being honest with me about it and that I was not mad.
I'm obviously not happy about OM coming over, but it seems to have worked in my advantage. W admitted its not like she was attracted to him or anything he was just around and gave her attention when she was really down and mad at me. Said she wants me to be the one to give that to her, and that she would have felt the same about a chimp at the time if it gave her that.
Really the only thing that has happened worthy of posting. Off to the woods!
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M
