Originally Posted By: melissag


I already made the mistake of telling my parents too much (at the beginning). I have had to tell them to back off and not say a bad word about H to me (they loved him until the minute they saw me upset) . . . my Mom even ripped off a nasty email to him (oyyyy!). I think they are calmed down a bit now, but there is work to be done there - I just can't deal with it right now, because I have bigger fish to fry.


I can totally relate here... i wish I had never told my parents anything smirk

You are doing so well and you have great people in your thread giving you awesome advice. Keep up all the great work!


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope