Personally, I like the brutal honesty uR. But maybe I'm kinky that way. wink

Seriously, some of the things you and others have said really chap my hide at times, but to me that is GREAT. How else will I know what I need to work on as others see it? How else will I learn to get unstuck from the chains that bind me? Like Mach has said to me the other day, when it stings, I want to take a look at why it stings and that is so true. That was an awesome insight he had into himself that made me go HMMMM, ME TOO!...I want to know the whys. Instead of the whining why me? ya know?

We love your nice spirit, it's warm and gentle and soothes me at times to see how much you have been through and you came out of it so incredibly loving and generous. That's not to say you don't have a B side, but you use it when you need to and effectively, so not B at all, just straight to the point. We need those, I need those.

p.s. I read earlier where you were only 5 feet tall and I have to say that was exactly how I pictured you! Small and tiny but with HUGE spirit and energy. smile


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.