CC, that's not an easy place to be. How about starting with research? Ask, read, research how to handle mental illness.
I do agree that if he doesn't really want help, he won't get it. He has to figure that out though.
Hang in there.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
