Wow CC, that must have been scary to have to deal with the death threats, but I agree with job, it looks like you made the best decision you could in the situation.
Give yourself some credit for taking the best course of action in a difficult spot. That is grace under pressure and not all of us have it.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."