It's tough to feel so neglected when the person you love is right in front of you...it tears you apart. I've been hitting my weights and riding my bike much more than I need too..just to reduce the stress. Spending time with my kids helps a lot too..but in the end when you sleep in a separate bed and all you want is to put your arms around your wife it's brutally hard on your mind and heart.
I'm with you on not helping my W with anything D or S related..she's a big girl with plenty of family and friends...if she wants it bad enough she'll figure it out just fine I'm sure.
Hang in there bro.
me - 43 her - 34 married - 14 yrs Son 7 Daughter 8 The bomb - June 2013
