So he arrives tomorrow. He wrote a long emailing detailing the events that have made him unhappy. I can see his point, though I have to think he did not ever express these views at the time. But I am not raising that issue. I can see why he doesn't want this marriage and actually if it as he describes I don't want something like that either.
I am thinking I should use the advice of saying I agree the marriage doesn't work, but we can work on something else. But after a week of being alone and thinking I realise that there are changes I need to make for me to make me happier, more relaxed and less organising - I know that for me, quite a relevation but not something I plan on sharing.
It all stems from needing approval. That is what I am working on for me..
mellissag I can really feel for you and living in the house alone takes courage. I try to stay busy and this site helps.. a lot . If I feel the panic of living alone I check here and read. I really admire how you are handling this, inspires me Thanks
