Hi Pud, I won't think about that too hard, lol. H will sometimes come round to use the bath as he's not got one at his flat. The razors are for shaving round his privates, don't ask! lol. I spoke to mum today. Considering I asked my parents not to talk about my H, they still do! My mum said she didn't invite us over to stay because my H really upset her. She's forgotton that she was the one who upset him in the first place. This was 2 years ago!! Talk about holding a grudge!! AND... She's supposed to be a Christian!! She upset me, I felt cold when I got off the phone to her. I suppose I can't grumble about her too much as she sending me some money for Christmas, after making sure that H wasn't coming over of course, lol. I can't wait to see the counsellor on Tuesday now I need some help with coping with my mum, never mind the H, lol. Hopefully this counsellor may actually say something instead of saying "You can't do anything about your parents, you'll never change them, just ignore them", etc.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I need some help with coping with my mum, never mind the H, lol. Hopefully this counsellor may actually say something instead of saying "You can't do anything about your parents, you'll never change them, just ignore them", etc.