Hi rH,

Some good stuff there!

Good for you recognizing your "superiority" feelings, and realizing they need to go...it's tough, isn't it? I struggled with those, and I would put money on it that THAT is a factor in W's slowness in reconnecting, the fear that I will forever be "better" than her, in my own mind. So, I have to keep showing that I don't feel that way, or think that way.

One thing here :

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Being an alcoholic is not about drinking too much it is about why one drinks too much. He either needs program or therapy.

This is something I can't make him do. frown. And I do worry about him.


Just to let you know it is ENTIRELY possible for him to figure this ^^^ out himself. Some people can do it without a program, etc. You know H best.

You're a class act there, rH...H is one lucky man!

smile


In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm