I've been feeling alot of anger over the past few weeks. I'm realizing that W is going to file for D. She has begun to close herself off a bit and doesn't share much with me.
We are in separate bedrooms and I get a generic good night and hi in the morning.
I've found literature and pricing on condos, townhouses and storage units among her stuff. She's also gotten together with a handful of her girlfriends, individually, for lunch over the past couple of weeks. Two of whom encouraged her to leave me during her first affair.
So, I can assume she's looking for support and encouragement that she's doing the right thing. And, I'm sure she's getting plenty of their blind guidence!
I saw a text to one that said she's looking for a place and will file for D soon.
So, that's where I am. I spoke to an attorney and got some info, but I can't afford the $5,000-$7,000 to retain him. I've been looking online at a free divorce guidence site which provides the forms and information for answering a divorce complaint and countersuits.
Still hoping W is planning to leave my assets alone and not challenge my staying in the house.
I'm a little confused on how to behave right now. Should I try to talk to her about her plans and hammer out some agreements?
Maybe go dim and act like I'm on my own?
I don't know. Suggestions??
Vince B M=10 yrs T=13 yrs M45 / H 44 2 Boys 5 & 8 D Day: 7/16/13
