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Your husband wants you to remain as the stanchion, pillar, he does not want you to be a defective RT.
He already has that.

Cadet, this is right on. My H has said these words almost exactly.

Linda, you know how much my H talks. He has said this to me. It's like they need both sides. I call it tethering.

It hurts us Linda, we feel the pain they are trying to escape. But, at the same time, we don't want to cut that line, so we push forward.

The trick is not to let it take us with! Hold on my friend!

The past can't be ahead of you in the future.
You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction.
What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!