I mean it cuts to the very core of standing. Do we stand for the marriage by staying in the marriage or leaving the marriage?

You get what I'm saying?

I don't agree with his behavior. I think he needs help. Desperately. But, am I enabling the behavior by staying married to him?

Is RosaL enabling by allowing him to live in the house?

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson