In Al-Anon, it's different. Maybe this is where I get stuck.
In my former self-actualization work in living and dealing with an alcoholic, it was a little more clear cut. It made more sense!!!
How is living with someone else NOT disrespectful? In Al-Anon, you break off ties completely if the person doesn't respect the boundaries you set.
We both made the decision to get married, so how come he gets to live with someone else? How is that HIS Choice, but talking on the phone or whatever with the OW in the house ok?
I really don't get the fine line.
It's like saying it's ok to have an affair because it's your choice, but just don't do it in front of me.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
