I didn't say any of that SP, (responding to the above) You have a way of taking conversations where you want them to go, not really hearing what the other person is saying. Me saying I think moving can have different effects on different people turned into this "If you feel it is in a Childs best interest to uproot them, pull them away from their friends, school curriculum, teachers, school and community activities" Your W moving has turned into she's going to drag D all over creation.

You don't know that's going to happen.

Life circumstances change all the time, they can be good or bad or neutral, most of that is up to us.

I think my suggestion was that you have a conversation with W, before you fire the first shot across the bow.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss