She's gonna make it.....

[LoisB]

So here's what I was questioning yesterday. I think I know how to voice it now!!!

Ok, so Rosa's hubby is having a convo via computer with RT. She walks in. She rants and raves, BUT that is NOT DB-ing??????

According to the above, anytime we stand up for ourselves, we are creating boundaries. Maybe not perfectly, but we are still telling them to knock it off.

My H is living with another woman in an apt I helped him rent. That's not acceptable to me. It's stupid disrespectful to me and his children since he's still married.

Why is NOT bringing up the OW in conversations with him appropriate. In setting boundaries, isn't that the healthy thing to do? "Hey, I know you are living with someone else while still being married. I'm not ok with that."

I don't get the fine print here.