I told her I understood how she must feel and explained to her how I went through the same feelings, depression, weight loss and sleeplessness and how I started my recovery from it, I offered anything I could do to help. She responded with a "I don't want to be with you anymore" & "I don't want to live with you anymore".
Not sure it is a good idea to bring up yourself when showing sympathy to your w. You are making it about you and not her. I am not surprised by her response. Just listen and say things like "I am sorry you are felling that way" but don't bring up YOU
Originally Posted By: DTM
I felt compelled to share Michelle's video on WAW
Bad idea. Giving books, showing videos... It is pressure that a WAW does not want
Originally Posted By: DTM
I can only imagine that her EA with her girlfriend is still going strong and I'm going to have a serious tough time winning her back. At this point she loves her cell phone more than me.
Your w is having an ea with a woman? Is she questioning her sexual orientation? Sorry if I missed your comments about this before?
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)