I've found out that w is having second thoughts about leaving but not really telling me. I wrote her a note that basically lets her know what I have been learning and that if she does go ahead and leaves that she will not be able to walk back in and act like nothing happened. We will have to find out what killed the old marriage and that we will start a new one, but she will have to let me know she is all in and wanting to work.
Have you already given her the note?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
