I said a lot of what I don't want, but also I don't need to have her dogs here for a week as triggers and a reminder that M is over (and we aren't yet working on a better one). I don't think it will help my detaching process at this point.

So while I would have jumped at the chance previously, and she might be trying to open the door a bit, I'm going to politely decline.


me: 30 XW:28
tgthr:4 m:1
no kids
BD: June 2013
D: Jan 2014