This alone shows how much growing she has to do if she is using her children as pawns to get back at you.
I have a different idea on this but first, did you ask her to talk about this more? How not letting the kids Skype you kept her from hurting?
Her realization of that and admitting it might actually be growth on her part.
I will ask her but I understand why this works for her and would also work for most people, I hurt her and she gets revenge on me.
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