THINK LIKE HARE MOVE LIKE A TORTOISE

[MrBond]

"I don't know what good it would do. If he has to go through an affair, or one night stands...whatever,"

Mindreading

"my bringing it to his attention will not allow him to deal with what he has to do, explore."

Controlling

"Also, it will make him more secretive, which ultimately will add to the erection of a wall rather than tear it down with trust."

Mindreading

"What is he going to leave me? He already has. He will go have sex? Probably already has. So why let him know I know? What are the benefits of letting HIM know. For no matter what he says, let's face it, it most likely will be a lie. Another one. Why set him up to lie ?"

Mindreading

"That is just setting up failure, and I really don't want him to project his guilt onto me right now. "

Mindreading and controlling.